Rarely will any relationship survive on secrets. It is very common that after you have been dating a person for only a short while, you get a good idea of their lifestyle. It is not bad to remember though, that the person may actually hide some secrets he is not ready to share with you. Everything can be brought to the light if you feel that something is being unduly kept in the dark and you wonder what it is.
If he keeps it secret about his parents, there may be explanations to this.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents.Secondly, his relationship with the parents may be sour for reason he will not share with you yet. You will need to establish who they are and how they grew up if you are still interested to continue with the relationship.
So long as you don’t know his friends, do not be at peace. Do not rest if he has never introduced you the friends he always talks about meeting. This may be used to distract you so that he gets to someone important in his life or to go to a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them. No matter what the reason is, ensure that you use applicable force to know the truth which will prove very useful to you in the long run.
He may never talk about his work. He may be either jobless or doing what he didn’t say he does.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. There may be very many reasons why he will not want you to know the names. They may actually be in a potential relationship. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships.Either way; you must be sure that he is not hiding something dangerous.
Your newly found man might have a very dark past or even a secret. You may be lucky that your man is just shy and fails to disclose many things. A serious man in a relationship will hardly hide his home and will actually offer to take you to know his home.He can also drop in so you can see his place.
Try as much as possible to be wary of a man who seems to keep some secrets from you.